DVD Vito Bonafacci

I found the movie a refreshing experience. We all have to come to terms with what kind of life we have lead. I feel that Paul Boughese did and excellent job of showing how God and the Spirit play a very important roll in the life we lead. Even if you are not of any religious persuasion, this movie will touch the depths of your soul. I left the theater feeling great about who I am and a deep recognition of what my life at 58 should be. It was his fear of death that brought him back to spirituality. As an Italian, having his momma keep reminding him that our good is not the same as God's good, just clinches it for him. The movie did a great job of showing us Vito's opinion of good was not the only thing that mattered, he went a step further and asked those who were subservient, equal and above him, "what their opinion of good is?" And finally his fears, love, respect of his momma and his religious background overcame the fear and turned it into strength, This gave him new life therefore, thru the gates of the future he went. I think that this movie should be distributed to all churches and faiths throughout the nation. We need a little more of Vito in our lives. I commend Mr Paul Borghese for taking this role and performing it HEAVENLY. I was honored to share it with him.

Vito, the Good Deed Doer, the conversion of a hedonist rich atheist to Christianity after a near death experience.

In his conversation with his maid, he asks her whether he will go to heaven or hell and where God will send him or others. This is theologically incorrect. God does not send anyone to heaven or hell, heaven or hell is created within the person's very own being by the very decision they take before their own being and God Himself.

Vito then enters into despair of the objective truth and says that anyone can really justify anything on this earth and the objective standards of good and evil simply become obsolete. What he doesn't know however (and in this case it would have helped him greatly to read the works of Blessed Cardinal John Newman) is that the last word in anyone's life is his own conscience and how sincere he truly was too it. This is what in the last run, determines one's salvation or not. In another flash of his mother, she accuses Vito of having a thirst for high esteem and that this thirst was engendered by hell itself. What this neurotic, naive and nagging woman (theologically completely off base) does not know about and would have done her a lot of good to know is a bit about affirmation psychology. It would have done a lot of good for her and her son Vito instead of just grinding him through the sausage grinder. If Vito has a thirst for esteem, it is a natural thirst coming from a lack of love, affection and emotional acceptance, not from the stupid place of hell. Not having met this need, poor Vito sought it in the world and its attractions. His mother was too blind and not affirmed herself to see that. Vito has doubts about his own goodness and I know where that came from: his own mother who never affirmed him emotionally to confirm that goodness to him, so now he seeks the answer from others. At one point he does say that he is a good person, yet why then be perturbed with the idea of not being good, if you already said you were good? The accordion player gives a rather awkward and simplistic idea and view of eternity as if it were an indeterminate extension of time. There is some truth to what he says, but eternity is much more than that: it is one moment of total or infinite reality in which we will bask in everlasting life or burn in everlasting pain according to what we truly will ask for of our own free and unhindered will. The decision nonetheless is a serious one. Though an attempt is made to describe the joys of heaven or pains of hell to something of the earth, there is really no possible comparison to this, but the decision to where we want to spend our eternity is truly ours and ours alone. Though fear is a good and valid reason to get us to heaven, it is not the best one. There is a beautiful Moslem prayer that says: "Oh Lord, if I desire you to obtain the joys of heaven, then take them all away from my soul, if I desire you only for the reason of escaping from the pains of hell, then throw me to the deepest part of it, but if I love you only for you and nothing else but you, then bring me to wherever you are or dwell." Vito's friends tell him that they like him and admire the good deeds he does; now why couldn't his arrogant mother see this also? Saint Francis of Sales tells us that you can draw flies with honey but catch none of them with vinegar. If Vito's mother had not been so bitter, but said sweet words like a good mother generally does (instead of being a witch), she would have won her son over to Christ many years ago. Thank God, Vito does have a happy ending and the flashbacks of his youth, similar to the memories that the prodigal son reminisces bring him back to conversion. Though the first priest said many and useful things to Vito and helped and strengthened him towards conversion, he should have emphasized more the love aspect and person of Christ not so much the part that fear plays in our religion. The teaching on the rosary by the nun will help not only Vito, but will draw many Vitos and Vitas out there in the world through this precious scene and prayer. All in all, I thought the film to be very good, educational and evangelizing. I am sure it will boost up the faith of many lukewarm Catholics and have them think and reflect on the true meaning of life and our journey on this earth. Yet I felt to be a bit incomplete for bringing in the main reason for any conversion: the knowledge, love and acceptance and union with the very person of Christ who is the principle reason for our very existence, meaning and future of our lives. Before I end, I want to also give my opinion on the technical aspects of the film. All the actors and actresses did excellent and they are to be congratulated on their performance. The scenes were very well done and the camera work was very competent, the places chosen were beautiful and fit very well in the story. The instrumental background was perfect and quite in harmony with the story. The gender was a type of modern surrealism very pertinent for a society that refuses to even stop a moment to smell a rose or give their body and bladder a moment of necessary rest and function.